Jul 29

family

I stumbled upon a post on a parenting blog of which owner is an American mother questioing her readers ‘How old were their children when they stopped wanting kisses from mummy?’ and the question kind of surprised me as I never thought American kids were embarrassed being kissed by their mummies. Also, the question led to another question in my mind ‘How close are you to your family?’

I don’t know much about western families but for us Asian people, family is quite a priority in life, at least to me, it is.

I’m the second child in the familly among an intelligent elder sister, a childish younger sister, the youngest brother who is a smart arse and each of us is one year and three months different. My parents were not high educated but we four have been perfectly brought up! We still stay with our parents (it’s very common in Thai culture) except my elder sis who’s now working in the north. That’s why we are so close to one another.

Being a middle child in the family, I’m very close to every family member especially my great daddy :) When i was a little girl, he always told me that I had been found in the trash so he adopted me while the others were his real children. At that time I was too innocent to realise he was just kidding me, thus I couldn’t help crying everytime he teased me. Years later, I knew it was only a (bad) joke and the reason he teased me that way because he and I are the most alike! The three look like our mummy but I alone look really like our daddy :)

I’m now in my twenties and I still always get kisses on the cheek from my daddy and we sometimes walk holding hands hehe. I don’t know whether that’s weird or not but I just don’t care (my daddy probably does but he never tells me lol). One of my friend said that luckily we are really alike, otherwise poeple might think we are….(say no more!)

Nov 29

Yesterday after work I went to see my Laotian friend who I’ve met only 3 times since we first knew each other two years ago. He’s come for a seminar in Bangkok along with many international students. I even had no idea where I would bring him to as he’s been to Bangkok many times but finally he came up with an idea of going CLUBBING in Khoasarn Road!! I was speechless since I didn’t want to go but what to do!!! I thought it would be just a few people coming with us. Once I stepped in a club, I was shocked as there were loads of them; Canadians, Russians and many Asian people. Everything was not as I had expected, music, people and so on. I was like sitting and watching people dancing crazily (especially two guys from Russia and Korea). Fortunately, most of them were really really friendly and there were some Thais to talk to. It was getting fun around midnight (I was not drunk or even high) but I felt really wanna go home since I had to work in the morning. Yet, I came out of the club at 1:30, my Laotian friends and others still wanted to keep hanging out (EXCUSE ME, I GOTTA WORK) I didn’t go with them of course and I arrived home around 2 am. The weather was quite cold and I was SUPER sleepy, hey hey I did shower but it was like less than 5 mins hahaha. It was 2:45 when I went to bed, I wish I could catch Liverpool on TV last night as they kicked off at 2:45 but you know I was too exhausted! I immediately fell asleep and was waken up 10 mins later! Oops it was not 10 mins, it was 6:30 in the morning! 

PS.1  For me, the club was not even in top 100

PS.2  I was not late at work!  ^_______^